How to Praise Your Teen Without Adding Pressure
“I’m proud of you” can land as love — or as “Don’t mess this up.” Use praise that builds inner confidence instead of fear of disappointing you.
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For the “I don’t care,” “What’s the point?” and “I’m trying” moments — when you want your words to lift, not add pressure.
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A tough grade can sting — for both of you. Learn how to stay calm, protect their confidence, and still talk honestly about what happened.
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